Saturday, October 22, 2011

Amber Cole Video Aftermath Shows the 14-Year-Old is “Desperate” for Attention

Amber Cole Video Aftermath Shows the 14-Year-Old is “Desperate” for Attention
Amber Cole, the 14-year-old who was infamously caught performing oral sex on a male friend (purported to be her ex boyfriend who she was trying to “win back”), is said to be really taking advantage of her new-found celebrity.
Unconfirmed reports continue to mention that Cole has been talking about her “situation” all week on  and Facebook, showing that she is milking this thing for all it’s worth.
In the days following the eruption of the scandal, Amber immediately signed up on Twitter and begged celebrities to follow her. She even showed her own face and let the whole world know exactly what she looked like.
But is she simply a young woman who is “desperate” for attention … and not in a bad way?
  
Dr. Phoyenx Austin, a physician, writer and media personality said this about Amber’s

 Amber Cole Video Aftermath Shows the 14-Year-Old is “Desperate” for Attention
“[Amber's] actions clearly display that she is so desperate for ANY form of male validation and love that she would degrade herself to this degree. As for the boy, or boys, who are no more than parasites, I sincerely hope that they are dealt with by karma’s hand — and maybe even a male relative that decides to step up to the plate. This is not boys being boys. Their actions were cruel and sick. And you can tell everything about an individual’s soul based on how they treat someone they don’t have to treat well.”
If Amber has low self esteem, then she definitely needs help.
And the fact that this story is so huge, and not one organization for women or troubled teens have stepped up to give this girl the help that she needs, and deserves, is troubling.
So is she being ignored? We can’t help but think about the amount of energy and effort that would be put into helping Amber out if she were blond-haired and blue-eyed.
Why hasn’t anyone stepped up to the plate and at least offer the young girl some form of counseling?
Instead of trying to figure out “why” Amber did what she did, why aren’t we trying to figure out “why” no one has offered to help her in the aftermath?
Because clearly, if that really is her on Twitter, she is lost and desperately needs to be found.
Today, Amber allegedly said on Twitter that she “loves” the boy in the video.
“So what if [first boy] exposed me,” she tweeted. “It doesn’t change my feeling towards him. I love him with everything and will always be here for him.”
She continued, “I miss him … I love you both … you both will forever be in my heart. I just want these 2 boys in my life and I’m good.”
If Amber is really saying things like that on Twitter, then hopefully she is joking. And if not, we can only hope that she will be able to get some help, because if she truly feels like that, then that is scary.

What are your thoughts?

Amber Cole Video Aftermath Shows the 14-Year-Old is “Desperate” for Attention

Amber Cole Video Aftermath Shows the 14-Year-Old is “Desperate” for Attention
Amber Cole, the 14-year-old who was infamously caught performing oral sex on a male friend (purported to be her ex boyfriend who she was trying to “win back”), is said to be really taking advantage of her new-found celebrity.
Unconfirmed reports continue to mention that Cole has been talking about her “situation” all week on  and Facebook, showing that she is milking this thing for all it’s worth.
In the days following the eruption of the scandal, Amber immediately signed up on Twitter and begged celebrities to follow her. She even showed her own face and let the whole world know exactly what she looked like.
But is she simply a young woman who is “desperate” for attention … and not in a bad way?
  
Dr. Phoyenx Austin, a physician, writer and media personality said this about Amber’s

 Amber Cole Video Aftermath Shows the 14-Year-Old is “Desperate” for Attention
“[Amber's] actions clearly display that she is so desperate for ANY form of male validation and love that she would degrade herself to this degree. As for the boy, or boys, who are no more than parasites, I sincerely hope that they are dealt with by karma’s hand — and maybe even a male relative that decides to step up to the plate. This is not boys being boys. Their actions were cruel and sick. And you can tell everything about an individual’s soul based on how they treat someone they don’t have to treat well.”
If Amber has low self esteem, then she definitely needs help.
And the fact that this story is so huge, and not one organization for women or troubled teens have stepped up to give this girl the help that she needs, and deserves, is troubling.
So is she being ignored? We can’t help but think about the amount of energy and effort that would be put into helping Amber out if she were blond-haired and blue-eyed.
Why hasn’t anyone stepped up to the plate and at least offer the young girl some form of counseling?
Instead of trying to figure out “why” Amber did what she did, why aren’t we trying to figure out “why” no one has offered to help her in the aftermath?
Because clearly, if that really is her on Twitter, she is lost and desperately needs to be found.
Today, Amber allegedly said on Twitter that she “loves” the boy in the video.
“So what if [first boy] exposed me,” she tweeted. “It doesn’t change my feeling towards him. I love him with everything and will always be here for him.”
She continued, “I miss him … I love you both … you both will forever be in my heart. I just want these 2 boys in my life and I’m good.”
If Amber is really saying things like that on Twitter, then hopefully she is joking. And if not, we can only hope that she will be able to get some help, because if she truly feels like that, then that is scary.

What are your thoughts?

Amber Cole Alone : Do You Want To Watch This?

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The Amber Cole video is a hot search for people right now, but what many don't realize is that if you tune in, you're watching child pornography.
EXCLUSIVE: Leave Amber Cole Alone: Social Media Is Victimizing Our Young People
The video shows the 14-year-old high school student performing oral sex on her ex-boyfriend. In the last couple of days, Amber has been ridiculed for her behavior on Twitter, Facebook and all over the internet.
STORY: Who Is Amber Cole?
In the official video you can see Amber performing the sexual act on school grounds. Amber has received support from fellow teens, who have started numerous Facebook pages dedicated to her.
However, this video is child pornography and we will in no way link to the uncensored video!
Click below to watch student Jordann Marie defend Amber and fight against cyber bullying!

In this digital age, way too often social media is victimizing our young people. Humiliation is just an enter key and mouse click away.
Over the last week, a video of 14-year-old Amber Cole performing oral sex on her ex-boyfriend went viral. The event took place outside of their high school while two other boys watched nearby and recorded it.
It wasn’t long before websites got a hold of the recording and posted it for their subscribers to view.
Immediately social networking websites such as Twitter and Facebook filled up with controversial comments and opinions on the scandal. The hash tag topic that trended read “Leave Amber Cole Alone.” Derogatory words were thrown Amber’s way, some of them even crossing the line to bullying.
Yes, Amber Cole performed the act, but should she be ridiculed this way? The answer is no. There are many steps and tools that could’ve prevented this. Not excuses but precautions, she is 14 years old and was obviously mislead.
Sources say Amber consented to perform this act on school grounds in hopes to win back her ex-boyfriend.
On and off camera scenarios like this are wrong. At such a young age, although she does know right from wrong, our communities can be to blame.
Before Amber is any of the names she has been called, she is someone’s daughter first.
Where are the men in this child’s life? Judging off her desperation to win back an old boyfriend that she shouldn’t have had in the first place, Amber is completely vulnerable.
Perhaps there is a male void in her life which lead to her seeking validation from boys. This easily leads back to a popular community slogan, “Protect Our Children.”
Based off the actions of the two boys that recorded the act, this displayed that they might have not been brought up to honor and respect women.
 
We live in an age where bullying has ended in suicide and longtime internal scaring. Although this has not been verified by a credible source, there is talk that Amber is on a suicide watch.

.

Amber Cole Alone : Do You Want To Watch This?

http://img.ibtimes.com/www/data/images/full/2011/10/18/175502-amber-cole-video.jpg
The Amber Cole video is a hot search for people right now, but what many don't realize is that if you tune in, you're watching child pornography.
EXCLUSIVE: Leave Amber Cole Alone: Social Media Is Victimizing Our Young People
The video shows the 14-year-old high school student performing oral sex on her ex-boyfriend. In the last couple of days, Amber has been ridiculed for her behavior on Twitter, Facebook and all over the internet.
STORY: Who Is Amber Cole?
In the official video you can see Amber performing the sexual act on school grounds. Amber has received support from fellow teens, who have started numerous Facebook pages dedicated to her.
However, this video is child pornography and we will in no way link to the uncensored video!
Click below to watch student Jordann Marie defend Amber and fight against cyber bullying!

In this digital age, way too often social media is victimizing our young people. Humiliation is just an enter key and mouse click away.
Over the last week, a video of 14-year-old Amber Cole performing oral sex on her ex-boyfriend went viral. The event took place outside of their high school while two other boys watched nearby and recorded it.
It wasn’t long before websites got a hold of the recording and posted it for their subscribers to view.
Immediately social networking websites such as Twitter and Facebook filled up with controversial comments and opinions on the scandal. The hash tag topic that trended read “Leave Amber Cole Alone.” Derogatory words were thrown Amber’s way, some of them even crossing the line to bullying.
Yes, Amber Cole performed the act, but should she be ridiculed this way? The answer is no. There are many steps and tools that could’ve prevented this. Not excuses but precautions, she is 14 years old and was obviously mislead.
Sources say Amber consented to perform this act on school grounds in hopes to win back her ex-boyfriend.
On and off camera scenarios like this are wrong. At such a young age, although she does know right from wrong, our communities can be to blame.
Before Amber is any of the names she has been called, she is someone’s daughter first.
Where are the men in this child’s life? Judging off her desperation to win back an old boyfriend that she shouldn’t have had in the first place, Amber is completely vulnerable.
Perhaps there is a male void in her life which lead to her seeking validation from boys. This easily leads back to a popular community slogan, “Protect Our Children.”
Based off the actions of the two boys that recorded the act, this displayed that they might have not been brought up to honor and respect women.
 
We live in an age where bullying has ended in suicide and longtime internal scaring. Although this has not been verified by a credible source, there is talk that Amber is on a suicide watch.

.